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Good Friday Church Services 2023

Each year we try to list Good Friday services, based on the church's website advertising they are having such a service. If I go to a website and can't find information about a Good Friday service, it isn't listed here.

The churches we can recommend fully as sound churches to attend are marked with an *. 

Chancellor Baptist Church  (Fredericksburg, VA) 6:30-7:30 pm 

Choice Baptist Church (Fredericksburg, VA) 6 pm

CityLight Baptist Church (Culpeper, VA) 7 pm*

Grace Fellowship Church (Fredericksburg, VA) 6:30 pm*





Celebrating Good Friday

I re-post this old write up annually even though the kids have aged a lot! It was originally posted in 2010.  It's been updated as links have disappeared. Posting early so you can prepare!

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This year as we've remembered Christ's sacrifice for us in dying on the cross and being raised from the dead, we've done activity/coloring pages from Family Life that I found somewhere online but can't find now...they've been simple and a sweet way to get the story into the forefront of our minds. I read from John as the kids work on their sheets.

Today, a most sacred day, we are breaking in the midst of John 18 to go on a scavenger hunt for the items to be found in the traditional Resurrection Eggs. I've assigned each child an equal number of items, knowing everything can be readily found around the house and yard. This is a fun way to involve older children in the retelling of the events of this week so long ago.

Tomorrow, 'Holy' Saturday (we don't really call it that), we will bake Resurrection cookies before bed, using chocolate we can beat instead of nuts, and Sunday we will enjoy Resurrection rolls in the afternoon.

Some links for activity pages you can do with your kids: 

https://deeperkidmin.com/product/triumphal-entry-printable-bible-story-and-activity-pack/ (paid)
 
https://sermons4kids.com/triumphal_entry_colorpg.htm (free)

Complete Easter study free from Calvary Chapel-scroll down on the page to find Triumphal Entry, Jesus is Crucified and Jesus is Risen! Takes some work now (2021) but is worthwhile!

 https://calvarycurriculum.com/nt-matthew-john/


God bless you this Good Friday.

Distracting Thoughts

As someone who has wasted time, too much time, thinking of something different from my reality, I've got a few thoughts to share. The fact of the matter is that those who use their time well, the vast majority of it that is, do not exert energy on what isn't reality. When life is hard, some personalities are more prone to want to escape by thinking of a new direction to take their life. They are the dreamers by nature.... folks who think of new ventures often. This can be a valuable trait in the right setting. Where it is a problem is when time is squandered away on these dreams, or different venues to go. 

When we're excelling at life, doing all we clearly have to do very well (which is our best), then we can be free to fritter away mental time and mental energy. Usually the energy lost in thinking of "anything other than what we should be focused on" is just lost. Wasted. 

Time management, prioritization, a solid work ethic, and being good stewards of our thoughts, time,  and talents go hand in hand. 

Do you work heartily as unto the Lord... that is a big instruction for Christians. 

Losing time on the internet, sleeping too much, researching things that turn into wasted time, day dreaming, or pursuing vain interests will make valuable time disappear. Are you pressed for time? Try taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ. Be thankful for the job at hand, and do your best with it. Keep your thoughts on the here and now. 

Brilliance Test

The phrase 'pecking order' is easily understood if you have chickens. The most aggressive chicken is not the top chicken but rather the second in line for the throne. 👑 The first is relaxed and knows it is the boss. There is nothing to prove or get worked up about when you are number one. You know what you know. The number two chicken really wants to be in the place of number one!! Watch them long enough and you will see it. 

I think it might be the same with people regarding their intelligence. 🐓




In the Beginning, God Created...

 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. 2 And the earth was a formless and desolate emptiness, and darkness was over the surface of the deep, and the Spirit of God was hovering over the surface of the waters. 3 Then God said, “Let there be light”; and there was light. 4 God saw that the light was good; and God separated the light from the darkness. 5 God called the light “day,” and the darkness He called “night.” And there was evening and there was morning, one day. Genesis 1: 1-5

There are a lot of people who do not believe this portion of Scripture, literally the opening words that God wanted to communicate to mankind. To not believe this is someone's prerogative. Believing it requires a response, and there are many who do not wish to give it the response it obviously demands. To recognize this as truth means that we must acknowledge that not only does God exist, but that He created all that we see and know. This opening passage of Scripture shows an active, orderly, in charge God. An omnipotent God that calls forth, creates, sees, moves, determines, separates, and speaks. 

To literally believe Genesis 1 means that there was initially darkness, and that God is the One who brought light to that darkness. God saw that the light was good and separated it from the darkness, which shows that the darkness was different, and the One who created that, saw it and made a move. Order was being directed and decided upon, and that was done by God. These passages require holy worship to the only One with the authority to determine the course of all things, including our lives as those who worship and follow Him.

This same God of Genesis has designed the family to operate in a particular way. There is a head to the family and there are subordinates. There is a picture of Christ's relationship to His church in the family unit. It is a mystery that God has outlined for us. When we believe it and follow it, we will experience the consequences of that decision. When we pick and choose what to believe or reject it all outright, we get to experience the consequences of that decision. 



It is not new for people to think they are smarter than God. It is not new for wives to question the authority of God Almighty because they have a husband who does stupid things. It is not new for mothers to talk incessantly to others about their children's behavior, while never disciplining them as they should, deceiving themselves into thinking that talking about a situation equals corrective action. It is not new for the godless to write books that promote child training that runs completely against the loving truth that God has given us in how to point our children to Him. And it is not new for husbands to shirk their God ordained role to lead their families (whether or not it is because their liberal wives make it hard for them to do so). It is not new for husbands to lord their position over wives who are emotionally beaten down. Sin is not new, my friends, and it comes in all the same colors and shades that is always has. 

The reality is, as Christians who are tasked with pointing others to the truth, we do all we can to make Christ attractive. We do all we can through prayer and lovingkindness. But we must hold on loosely because the world, and its sin, is alluring; and many who start on the path of righteousness leave it for worldly wisdom. Many who seem firmly planted in the truth wither and dry up when the heat of hard decisions starts to bake them in the hot sun. We cannot be discouraged as the true followers of our Lord and Savoir Jesus Christ. We must move on to the next mission God has directed us to, always striving to be sanctified more and more so that we can't help but bring God glory through our kind submission to those He has placed us under. We who walk with God are all under authority. Let us make sure we are following the right one. 

Do not give what is holy to dogs, and do not throw your pearls before pigs, or they will trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces. Matthew 7:6 

A Perspective on Essential Oils

https://urls.grow.me/ZdP1W5WeK

This is worth a read, including the comments. I use essential oils, not with a diffuser as is so common, but topically and orally. Fragrances are fragrances for those allergic to them. It isn't necessarily a synthetic chemical allergy that causes people with fragrance allergies problems. (It's rather unpleasant to go in a home with diffusers going if you are sensitive to smells due to a health condition. It's like scented candles burning.) This said, I've been helped by some EO, and so have family members, but caution is warranted as far as radical claims and anything that gets spiritualized. I'm not loyal to any one company. I've got a favorite doTerra blend, a YL I like, and others I've bought and mixed myself. It's important to realize the plural of 'anecdotes' isn't 'data'. I'll still try certain ones to see if they help, but if they don't, they don't. And researching ingredients is important as with anything medicinal.